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submitted 7 months ago by JimmyBigSausage@lemm.ee to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

Does anyone else text someone else in your own home if they are in another room? Am I just too lazy to go talk to them? Are you like me?

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[-] i_stole_ur_taco@lemmy.ca 52 points 7 months ago

In the olden days we would just scream at the top of our lungs to talk to people in other rooms. I feel like texting captures the lazy spirit without the chaos.

[-] soviettaters@lemm.ee 2 points 7 months ago

We continue to yell. Tradition is important in my family.

[-] Salvo@aussie.zone 1 points 7 months ago

I’m trying to train the rest of our household to use our voice assistant intercom feature.

One of the kids hates that the intercom interrupts whatever she is doing, as far as she is concerned, she ignores everyone else and uses her noise-cancelling earbuds for a reason.

Before anyone asks, I have already trained them to not say anything personal within earshot of the home assistants.

[-] TrickDacy@lemmy.world 17 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

I have already trained them to not say anything personal within earshot of the home assistants.

Yikes. Prisoner in their own home?

[-] bobs_monkey@lemm.ee 12 points 7 months ago

It's a big reason I don't want those things I'm my home. I know our phones are already doing it, but I don't have to allow additional snooping mechanisms.

[-] TrickDacy@lemmy.world 2 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

Exactly right. There's a bit of evidence that something like an Amazon device is worse about it than phones are too. I'm too lazy to go look it up but I'm pretty sure Amazon is always recording and storing human voices, or at least was at one time.

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[-] Xariphon@kbin.social 28 points 7 months ago

My wife and I do this, mostly because we're both often doing stuff in the house, but also want to send each other cat pictures, which don't demand an immediate response.

[-] PixTupy@lemmy.ml 5 points 7 months ago

Yeah me and my husbands messages are mostly memes and cat pictures.

[-] Perhapsjustsniffit@lemmy.world 4 points 7 months ago

Us too. Inappropriate memes that make us laugh. Avoids the "can I see" from the kids.

[-] linearchaos@lemmy.world 12 points 7 months ago

If we're not in the same room, we use an encrypted messenger. We do DMs and have a group chat.

If we're in the same room but don't want the kids to hear, we'll message too. If you ask out loud if we should get pizza, a no would prompt a mutiny.

We tried to use assistant broadcast, but it fails everytime someone turns the volume down on one. They need to fix the volume for broadcasts.

[-] dan@upvote.au 4 points 7 months ago

They need to fix the volume for broadcasts.

They have a lot of long-standing bugs but it seems like Google Assistant isn't really being prioritised by Google at the moment. They're actually removing a bunch of features: https://www.zdnet.com/home-and-office/work-life/google-assistant-will-lose-these-17-features-in-the-next-few-weeks/

Broadcasts via Google's API also fail if the network has IPv6 enabled. That's been broken for years and I doubt it'll ever be fixed.

[-] linearchaos@lemmy.world 1 points 7 months ago

Yeah my experience was with Amazon products and unless You've got the biggest speaker models you can't even hear them over the TV.

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[-] shyguyblue@lemmy.world 11 points 7 months ago

Bring TP to guest bathroom please!

[-] RovingFox@infosec.pub 10 points 7 months ago

My girfriend will text me when I am doing something noisy and she doesn't want to get out of bed.

[-] Reverendender@sh.itjust.works 9 points 7 months ago

I'm pretty sure everyone is like someone out there. Except maybe that guy from that other post today who like, decapitated his father and put it on YouTube. I don't know if there's anybody like that guy.

[-] JimmyBigSausage@lemm.ee 4 points 7 months ago

Oh my god you are so right.

[-] tacotroubles@lemmy.world 9 points 7 months ago

Only when there's a cat sleeping on someone's lap

[-] PrincessLeiasCat@sh.itjust.works 2 points 7 months ago

This is the correct answer.

[-] nutsack@lemmy.world 7 points 7 months ago

if you've got stairs and some shitty acoustics, yeah definitely

[-] sunbrrnslapper@lemmy.world 6 points 7 months ago

Yes. Yes. And yes.

[-] Dhrystone@infosec.pub 6 points 7 months ago

I do, but it’s because my wife works from home and spends three quarters of the day with the chick cave door closed doing teams meetings. Generally my msgs will be “want brunch/coffee/pastries?” etc.

[-] Vaggumon@lemm.ee 6 points 7 months ago

Technically not texting, but we have a Home Discord group chat.

[-] KoboldCoterie@pawb.social 3 points 7 months ago

We do this, too. Really convenient.

[-] alfenstein@beehaw.org 1 points 7 months ago

We have a Signal group chat, works really well for all kinds of things. Like "Dinner is ready" or "is anybody home?"

[-] paysrenttobirds@sh.itjust.works 1 points 7 months ago

That's awesome! So much more flexible than group text or whatever.

[-] JimmyBigSausage@lemm.ee 1 points 7 months ago

What is that?

[-] Thisfox@sopuli.xyz 5 points 7 months ago

I do, and he reads them days later and apologises.

Now that he is overseas on a business trip he reads them all immediately, but apparently in-house is not an option.

[-] ____@infosec.pub 2 points 7 months ago

That’s actually kinda adorable.

[-] paysrenttobirds@sh.itjust.works 5 points 7 months ago

My kid prefers to be texted for dinner. Knocking is iffy because of the ear buds.

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[-] tias@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 7 months ago

I use Google Home Assistant to broadcast messages, e.g. "dinner's ready"

[-] RBWells@lemmy.world 2 points 7 months ago
[-] solitaire@infosec.pub 4 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

I've never done it in my own home, but I had a coworker I'd text with even though his desk was an arms length away from mine. Mostly because it could be hard to tell when either of us was on or about to make a call.

[-] grasshopper_mouse@lemmy.world 4 points 7 months ago

If they're in the same room, obviously I'll just speak to them. If they're in the next room over and the door is open, I'll still speak, just louder. But if they're two rooms away or upstairs, I'll text.

[-] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 3 points 7 months ago

All the time. Usually because I am working from home and my husband has the dog snoring in his lap and doesn't want to disturb him. Or I'm piled into bed with the dogs and don't want to create a stir by getting up. Dogs govern a lot of my time lol.

[-] blargerer@kbin.social 3 points 7 months ago

I've been in large groups and texted with the person I was sitting next to.

[-] ____@infosec.pub 3 points 7 months ago

All the damn time. If I’m I. The same room and we’re both awake, I speak, but if she’s asleep or I’m working and can’t escape from a vid meeting…. Signal it is.

For various reasons, my memory isn’t worth a damn, so there’s an added benefit of “yes, I told my wife that important thing” in the history

We live on one floor, with a bedroom, an office, a living room, and a kitchen. It’s definitely not that I’m too lazy to take the ten or twelve steps across the house lol

[-] T0RB1T@lemmy.ca 3 points 7 months ago

Depends on the size of the home I suppose. Tiny bungalow? Yeah, a little weird. Three-story? Not weird at all IMO.

[-] thorbot@lemmy.world 2 points 7 months ago

What’s it like living in a giant mansion where you can’t hear each other everywhere?

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[-] carl_dungeon@lemmy.world 2 points 7 months ago

All the time

[-] TheAlbatross@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 7 months ago

This kinda behavior irritates the hell outta me, but I've been told that's unreasonable for larger homes, more sensible for smaller homes.

I think if it would take you less than sixty seconds to walk to me and talk to me, you should just do it.

[-] RovingFox@infosec.pub 4 points 7 months ago

takes me less then 20 sec to write to you

[-] TheAlbatross@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 7 months ago

Yeah but that's so lazy. Have a modicum of respect to speak to me face to face. There's so much lost in communication when you lose facial expressions and intonation.

Plus, it's not like it's hard to just walk over, you're not losing a great deal of time or energy.

[-] RovingFox@infosec.pub 2 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

Little things like this matter. I would work from home doing something that needs my focus and get a sms that the courier is close. I need my focus to finish tasks fast so I will send a message to someone who should be more available.

It is not lazy or lacking respect. Sometimes it is more efficient and confortable for anyone involved.

[-] TheAlbatross@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 7 months ago

Now that kinda behavior makes more sense to me. Context does matter a lot here. I used to get text messages from an upstairs roommate about wanting to go party with some friends or ordering food on the weekend.

Like, sure, we can do this over text, but it will take you less than thirty seconds to walk to my door. Just do that. The whole conversation will be faster then

[-] ____@infosec.pub 2 points 7 months ago

Excellent word choice, I hear “modicum” so rarely.

[-] sag@lemm.ee 1 points 7 months ago
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[-] jlow@beehaw.org 1 points 7 months ago

I sometimes do it with people in the same room the lolz 👌

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