Wow you're a transphobe too? fuck you dude.

I think you're either overselling their defensive capabilities (like mods there do) or the solutions you used are just leaky and awful. I've found Tor to work very well, less complicated than the solutions you presented since it's basically an all in one. I had an account on there for almost a year only through Tor so it works well, but I lost the password and since I used a throwaway email account is gone for good, but still not shadowbanned.

I have 4 other accounts (I'm not going to say which ones they are, makes the job of admins harder) still been going for over two months.

You can usually appeal shadow-bans and they overturn them I've found, you have to send an appeal showing both that you know but also pretend you don't know why otherwise they'll think they owned you.

Before anyone tries to argue that they can't be a bigot because they're NonBinary, just keep in mind that transmedicalists are openly and directly transphobic despite being transgender themselves. Just because this person is NonBinary that doesn't make them not a hate-filled bigot, they still indeed are one, and in a way it's actually worse because they'll just say people are being transphobic or enbyphobic towards them when people try to call them out, which ends up being harmful because they're calling things that aren't transphobic transphobic. That reflects negatively on trans people and takes away from the ability to call out actual transphobia.

I can't tell if you're being genuine or sarcastic.

On Lemmy itself it hasn't been implemented, though there is an issue related to it on their github. There are clients that do it but it's client-side only at the moment.

That's one big problem with political discussions, everyone having them thinks their own views are the correct ones. Then there's the problem of politics in international communities, did you know that what's right and left can be entirely different in different countries and different cultures?

It's why I avoid political discourse and I try not to refer to myself or others as right or left.

block the porn communities or disable NSFW, that's what I did (at least before lemmy.blahaj.zone defederated from them)

It's not a load problem though, it's because some loser is DDoSing the server. Doesn't hurt to move to other instances where it isn't happening but the real solution would be to find who's doing this so they can be brought to justice (or silenced from the internet forever, whichever is easier).

Please tell others to stop misrepresenting this issue, it is an attack, not a user overload problem and nobody who's misrepresenting it that way is doing anyone any favors except the attackers by presenting it as such. Instead it should be presented as what it is.

I know they require them, it's is the way that they're implemented that I'm referring to. Like they made it deliberately frustrating. Some of them one a few websites even pop up twice or even three times and you have to click them multiple times to get them to go down.

I don't care what anyone says I still think this style is cool and I'm 27 years old. Maybe it's an Enby/Agender thing though, I don't know.

I think it might have something to do with the fact that much of Europe has privacy laws that protect their citizens and also makes it so people running nodes there don't have to kiss up to US companies. Hence why they block those nodes or just give them a huge amount of challenges to solve in hopes to frustrate them. Same with how they put annoying privacy pop-ups on the website in European locations which re-appear every time you login or visit the site.