This is extremely dangerous to our democracy.

They call it "Lincoln's Tax War" in the South.

Personally I'm way happier with a 401(k) than a pension. Risk is more distributed with a pension, yes, and many people don't have the knowledge or resolve to properly manage their own retirement funds. But pensions are a royal PITA, way more complicated (and expensive) to manage than a 401k. So if I had to choose between money coming out of my paycheck to go into a complicated expensive pension fund that may or may not be around in a few decades, OR a 401k that I have complete control over and can take with me when I leave the company, I'll take the 401k every day of the week.

Personally I feel like it's less about exposure to extreme gore and porn and stuff like that. It's more about the constant barrage of awful shit happening all over the world. Some stupid thing some politician said, police brutality, an asshole on a plane, etc. Our brains just weren't designed to handle so much stimulus overload. I'm not a psychologist or whatever but that's my opinion.

I just told the truth. Personal time off, health and wellness, weight loss, surfing, travel, and yes vibing doing nothing.

It went over well. Most interviewers were more interested in that than my professional experience. Most people can't do that and want to know what it's like.

For my part, I don't want to work for/with people who look down on that sort of thing.

Warning: my resume is extremely strong so I have a lot of leverage. YMMV

Yeah that little sound effect of teeth scraping cement before it happens, omg

I said I miss learning through osmosis, when you hear colleagues talking about something you may have heard of or read about but never seen in real life. So you get hands on practical real life experience on new concepts - or vice versa, teach someone else something new. You know, a healthy exchange of knowledge and ideas to help each other learn and grow. Fuck me, right?

This guy posted a 3000 word rant about how much he hates me, and he's going to need weeks to prepare for that mentally and make sure he's got the right outfit on and knows what kind of soda to offer me. Like dude wtf...

I truly enjoy a good debate "in good faith" where both parties lay out their positions and defend themselves and challenge my views. There's very little of that here. Just pure unbridled rage and astonishing ignorance.

Some of the people here are downright scary in how toxic and antisocial they are. I just got called a social vampire in another thread for having the audacity to say I personally want to return to office because I miss learning from colleagues, which just doesn't really happen when everyone is wfh. I'm pretty introverted myself but holy shit, the vitriol was intense. Unbelievable.

Don't worry, lemmy definitely beats Reddit in the socially maladjusted toxic asshole department.

I remember my friends and myself looking up "things to do instead of drugs" on some anti drug website once back in high school. Pretty much all of the suggestions had to do with playing in snow. We lived in the tropics with zero snow. So we bought an eight ball and went skiing instead.

Yeah it's really unfortunate and messed up that that is literally the only recourse the workers have. And usually it's out of the frying pan right into the fire because all companies fucking suck. Corporate culture is so toxic.