ownership

And the free slots aren't for coding but for writing docs, creating jira tickets and code review.

Start reading the nutritional facts on food packages. In the beginning it will make little sense. But as time goes by, you start understanding it a bit more and to notice patterns.

Eventually you start doing wiser choices. I've learned pretty quickly that the "healthy options" (e.g. low sugar cookies) are as bad for you than the regular ones.

a sad lasagne: used in pretty much a single dish; it is the least enjoyable part of the said dish; it can very easily be substituted for, don't know, eggplants

There is a clear difference here: the first software, you pay to use. The last one, you get paid to use it.

on the other end of the spectrum: I can't even do port forwarding to seed shit

You can adapt to a new layout pretty easily. I already did it twice due to moving to new country.