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[-] mrcleanup@lemmy.world 0 points 4 months ago

I love how we are all here talking about how we all think and perceive differently and you decided it was important to tell me that the way I process trauma isn't real. You can go ahead and fuck right off.

[-] mrcleanup@lemmy.world 3 points 4 months ago

You aren't imagining things. We take social cues from others. If you have friends who are weird, you will feel more free to be weird. If politicians have to hide their racism to work with someone above them, others will follow suit. If they don't have to hide it... same.

[-] mrcleanup@lemmy.world 1 points 4 months ago

Faces are hard for me too, but not impossible. It's like AI. It's easy to get a "teapot" but it takes more work and focus to get a specific individual.

[-] mrcleanup@lemmy.world 0 points 4 months ago

Maybe. One way to process trauma is to re-visit it until it becomes more familiar and less of an extreme experience. Seeing it in your mind may make it more real, but it also means you can just picture a teapot instead if you need to get away from it.

[-] mrcleanup@lemmy.world 3 points 4 months ago

I am trying to wrap my head around this. So if you are just walking down the street alone, watching cars go by, not reading, there a voice? What would it even be saying?

[-] mrcleanup@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago

Picture a teapot. Picture it turning over so you can see the other side. Sort of like that.

[-] mrcleanup@lemmy.world 17 points 4 months ago

Look, I'm a man, I'm not feeling insulted by this at all. If you are, maybe it's time to ask why.

I have no problem being a man while also acknowledging that sexual assault by men is a problem that is big enough that it has created a "caution culture" where people teach their daughters to be vigilant and women will cross the street if someone is walking behind them to stay safe. It isn't like this is overblown, studies vary but all agree it's somewhere more than one in ten women are victims of sexual violence in their lifetime. That's a non-dismissible statistic.

Sure sexual assault by women is a thing too, but men tend to handle it differently than women do. All we are doing here is acknowledging that in our culture "male stranger danger" is a thing that exists and is pervasive and strong enough that many women would be willing to risk the bear because at least it won't rape them.

Why would you be taking that personally?

[-] mrcleanup@lemmy.world 29 points 4 months ago

The fact that you think the point of this is your status and not someone else's safety says so much.

[-] mrcleanup@lemmy.world 12 points 4 months ago

Because the customer has become an entitled piece of shit and you don't tell an abuser "you're welcome."

[-] mrcleanup@lemmy.world 22 points 4 months ago

A lot of men are desperate to connect with other people and for validation.

[-] mrcleanup@lemmy.world 5 points 4 months ago

The Bambu printers are also great "entry level" as they work so well with a lot of features right out of the box. They aren't cheap though.

[-] mrcleanup@lemmy.world 5 points 4 months ago

Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence.

If your opinion is that kittens are cute, I'm on board. If your opinion is that everyone over 30 should be sterilized unless they are in a top 10 percent earning category, you're going to have to work for respect for that, and better have a damn convincing argument.

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