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[-] friend_of_satan@lemmy.world 1 points 6 hours ago

It was a joke. Dark humor is a coping mechanism that helps some of us avoid letting the existential dread creep in. Slaughterhouse 5 "so it goes" and all.

[-] friend_of_satan@lemmy.world 1 points 8 hours ago

He was just tempting fate by leaving a town called Lucknow in an ambulance.

[-] friend_of_satan@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

Not only is it random, it's nearly impossible to find something you have seen before. Awful all around.

[-] friend_of_satan@lemmy.world 67 points 1 day ago

A wearer of an engagement ring receives it when they become engaged, and a wearer of a wedding ring receives it when they wed. Seems pretty consistent to me.

[-] friend_of_satan@lemmy.world 15 points 1 day ago

There's a Firefox plugin that replaces YT thumbnails with stills from the video. It makes browsing YT so much better.

[-] friend_of_satan@lemmy.world 63 points 2 days ago

Also just fuck Broadcom in general for all the other dumb shit they do.

[-] friend_of_satan@lemmy.world 5 points 3 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

it's hard to be brave enough to approach new people

I was talking to my wife yesterday about how I gained social skills as an adult, and part of it was making a deliberate effort to start conversations with at least a few strangers everyday. Not hold a conversation, merely start one. Doing this for a while helps you get comfortable making chit chat and feeling out if it's worth continuing a conversation, and breaks down the idea that every conversation has to be meaningful.

Not sure if this helps you, but it really helped me.

As for where to go, look for gatherings like flea markets, car shows, street fairs, anything. Even if you don't care about the topic, be there for the people, and keep an open, curious mind. Maybe even make a game out of it, like the meow game, or some other goofy phrase, or try to ask a variety of people the same question. Or bring something that is a conversation starter like a dog, or juggling balls, or something small related to your furry hobby. The idea is to be around people in a mode that makes interaction easy.

Meeting people is just the first part though. Moving on to friendship obviously takes more work and time.

[-] friend_of_satan@lemmy.world 5 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

See also: competitive cognitive artifacts. https://philosophicaldisquisitions.blogspot.com/2016/09/competitive-cognitive-artifacts-and.html

These are artifacts that amplify and improve our abilities to perform cognitive tasks when we have use of the artifact but when we take away the artifact we are no better (and possibly worse) at performing the cognitive task than we were before.

[-] friend_of_satan@lemmy.world 15 points 4 days ago

"Satanic music, jazz and swing" would be a badass album title.

[-] friend_of_satan@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago

Can money solve that problem? I don't think so. It would help a bit, but surely not to a point that makes the significant difference.

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