HZD And Forbidden West really push forward the idea that you are playing as a strong woman and the graphics are so good Aloy seems like a real person. Probably not play as but a young girl watching those games being played would be a great role model.

I don't know about automatically but I have it on my actions. The three little dots in the top right you can bring up the menu and if hide read isn't there you can hit the three dots again on that menu - action visibility, to add it. Can hold and drag the order of the actions too.