Too late, I already own all the Stellaris DLC, my bad choices have been made long ago
Not sure yet! I've not bought a lot of games recently, but I do enjoy large swathes of the strategy genre. Stellaris, Civ 5 and 6, Terra Invicta, Frostpunk, etc.
Differences in instance-level topical focus and moderation philosophy, for one. Also physical location and "vibe".
There are a certain set of bigoted and/or extremist instances that I would judge an instance for not defederating from. There's a reason I've stuck with .world even through some turbulence. Some heinous shit shouldn't be tolerated by anyone.
I hope Lemmy eventually picks up more features like polls. I miss natively embedding polls.
Those factors are what help identify a "tankie", among other things. Communists are cool, but apologia of atrocities is not an inherent tenet of communism, despite what some people on the sketchier parts of Lemmy would have you think.
...It seems like you've described the problem yourself in the OP, but dismissively?
Can you see the word "bitch"?
I have heard lemmy.ml blocks curse words. My account is on lemmy.world and I see no removeds.
Wouldn't be the weirdest rebrand recently, honestly
Curate.
Block liberally. Especially block any community that is focused around hating something - even if it's a thing that deserves scorn, the vibe will grind you down, over time, especially if there are many communities like it. Block users who are assholes, after reporting them if it's bad enough.
Subscribe/follow/equivalent-action things you are genuinely interested in; cut out the really general categories unless you actively enjoy browsing that topic. Smaller communities are usually better, if they have enough content to be alive.
If you have any sort of hobby, try joining a space about it. If it's too toxic, block it, but if not, it is a good place to destress and perhaps even make friends.
Curate, it can't be overstated enough. A lot of sites don't let you sufficiently curate your feed, and if they don't, you should leave em.
I am subscribed to over 100 channels, ranging from daily uploads to 1 video every few months. Frankly I don't need more stuff to watch. When I do want to find something new, it's either a recommendation from a friend, something I saw on a different social media, or something I searched for myself deliberately.
This change isn't a good thing, it's Google trying to pressure more people into giving up more data, but the "threat" of them removing their algorithmically recommended content from my feed is not a threat at all, it's a bonus if anything.