I shouldn't need a third party to solve that AND it doesn't solve the issue that indexing is done by instance meaning that we can't search by adding "Lemmy" to our search like we do with Reddit...

Hosts could choose to host NSFW content or not, right now they have the exact same issue anyway so the current situation is no better...

That's why you make the backend available to all to develop a front end, but there's a default option just called Lemmy that helps solve the indexing and getting people started issue. If the Lemmy default option becomes shit the data is still available and something else becomes the default option.

A bit like Jerboa is the official app, but everyone can develop an alternative... Get rid of the instances and make all content available no matter where you sign up from and let the users curate their feed, you get rid of the admins completely, only moderators continue to exist.

Even if it's indexed, there's no single website to search for so even if I add "Lemmy" to help, it won't look for content where Lemmy isn't mentioned.

The mistake that was made was making the decentralization something that affects the front end. If the backend was decentralized and the front end was a single default website with people being able to create alternatives (but everyone being guaranteed access to all the content), that wouldn't be an issue. We could tell new users "Sign up on Lemmy.com and if you decide you don't like the UI just choose an alternative and use the same credentials to sign in." No one would know you're using a different UI, all content would be searchable by adding site:lemmy.com to your query.

Exactly and for the same reason Lemmy won't become as big as it has the potential to become. "Join Lemmy!" "How?" "Go to one of hundreds of websites and join and you'll have access to the Lemmy content the admin decided you could have access to... Oh and people logging in from those other sites might not have access to the content on your site so you might not be able to interact with a big chunk of users unless it's on a website that is connected to both your site and the site your site isn't connected to so choose the site you create your account on wisely! Makes sense?"

Also, even if you find results through searching, it sucks that it probably brings you to an instance that isn't yours so you have to figure out a way to open the link from your own instance in order to post in the discussion... That is, if you actually can from the instance you're signing in from!

But if you're anti fascism but pro authoritarianism, you're still wrong...

You can have a non-US centric point of view without defending Russia or Chinese genocides...

Aaaand... Again...

But nice story though...

Again, not the same thing.

But you're not preventing them from showing the ad if your TV is open while it's running, so no it's not the same, what you're talking about would be you doing the same for ads on YouTube (going to pee while they're playing) instead of stopping them from playing altogether.