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[-] DrMario@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

I;m thinking about thos Beans

[-] DrMario@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

Stree… me… oh…

[-] DrMario@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I don’t understand your point. Are you saying if we ban pit bulls people will choose other violent dog breeds, and those people are shitheads? Or are you saying people who want to ban pit bulls are shitheads and banning pits will open the door to banning more violent breeds?

[-] DrMario@lemmy.world 25 points 1 year ago

I genuinely can’t grasp why anyone would die on the hill of defending pit bulls. There are countless other dog breeds to choose from, why can’t we just ban pit bulls entirely when they’re demonstrably dangerous?

[-] DrMario@lemmy.world 17 points 1 year ago

Linux is the best OS for posting memes about Linux, cmv

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[-] DrMario@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Hey OP, I hear your frustration. Sometimes, she will simply not be into you like that, and that’s okay. But there are concepts that can significantly improve your dating life if you learn them.

The most important thing is to intentionally be romantic. You have to flirt. The way you describe this interaction doesn’t sound very flirty. She was nice and you had a good conversation? That’s great, but she could probably get a similar experience from a friend.

Flirting is about making things exciting. Taking a risk and making your intentions known is often attractive. Think playful banter. Having a low stakes, interview-style conversation is just boring for most women.

Practical ways to be more flirty:

  • choose a venue where you can sit side by side
  • maintain great eye contact when she’s talking
  • don’t rush to fill every silence, let it breathe
  • use statements more, rather than just questions
  • respectful and appropriate use of touch
  • playfully challenge or disagree with her at times
  • humor is great, but don’t constantly joke around

Basically, being a nice guy with a good job is great, and actually a prerequisite for many women to date you. But it’s not inherently sexy. You gotta learn how to embrace your romantic side to show them you’re capable of that, too.

DrMario

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