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Dealbreaker or no? (lemmy.world)

(inspired by friends' dating app woes)

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[-] flamingo_pinyata@sopuli.xyz 30 points 1 year ago

and that's why she liked sex when she wasn't supposed to.

At the risk of shallow psychoanalysis I think we found the root cause. She was taught sex is a bad thing so she constructed an elaborate fantasy world to justify it

[-] WaltJRimmer@lemmy.world 15 points 1 year ago

That was one part of a whole that a never got anywhere near finding out the entire story. With that and her stories of being damn near abandoned as a child, it really worried me as to what might have happened to her that she never felt free enough to tell me.

I tried to explain, "Like, no, that's normal." And she was just insistent that it was not. I didn't know about the believing herself to be half-succubus until later, but when I found that out, it kind of clicked into place that something happened to her and she just cannot believe that a normal person should enjoy sex the way she does. And that is... Really troubling.

this post was submitted on 22 Aug 2023
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