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this post was submitted on 28 Apr 2024
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If somebody is thanking you, you likely exerted effort on their behalf. So they say "thank you" for exerting effort, and then you respond with exerting effort was "no problem" you don't need to thank me. You're welcome would be a response more along the lines of "you are welcome" to make me exert effort.
They're both fine, and it's both a generational and locational thing. I personally prefer "no problem" because honestly I don't mind helping, but I'm also not giving you permission to use my effort at any time. You can have my efforts when it doesn't cause a problem.